Conversation facilitation for retreats and gatherings

Bring real conversation to the retreat you’re hosting.

We partner with retreat leaders to design and lead breakout sessions that turn passive listening into participatory learning. Connection circles, values work, courageous conversations.

“Melissa and Tenaya helped us cut through everyday, well-worn platitudes and dive into rich, fertile conversation. They’ve gently, intuitively, and intelligently guided me beyond simple questions to more meaningful ones that get to the core of who we are and what matters.”
Meg Lojek
Director, McCall Public Library
Melissa Daniels and Tenaya Wave, co-founders of Dialogue IQ
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How we partner with you

From first call to the moment we walk into your room.

  1. Participants gathered in conversation
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    Connect

    We learn your retreat’s goals, your audience, and what you want guests to leave with.

  2. A small detail from a Dialogue IQ session
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    Co-design

    We craft a custom session aligned with your theme, your timing, and the room.

  3. A circle of attendees mid-discussion
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    Facilitate

    We lead the room. You stay present with your guests.

  4. A couple in conversation at one of our retreat workshops.
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    Integrate

    Guests leave with insight that carries beyond the retreat.

Signature workshops

Workshops that don’t just deliver content — they create moments.

Every workshop is shaped to your group, your theme, and the time you have.

Listen deeply — a workshop on the art of presence and attention in conversation
90 minAll groups

The art of deep listening.

Move beyond surface talk. Guests learn to listen in a way that uplifts and energizes the people around them.

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Cultivating joy — a workshop on creating space for happiness and well-being
60 minWellness retreats

Cultivating joy.

A workshop on the practice of joy. Where it actually lives in a day, and how to make more room for it.

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Discover your core values — a workshop on living authentically, inspired by Brené Brown
90 minLeadership retreats

Discover your core values.

Inspired by Brené Brown’s values work. Each guest leaves with two values they can name, and a clearer sense of what to say yes and no to.

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A group of friends gathered in conversation around a lakeside campfire at sunset in McCall, Idaho.

From past retreats and workshops

The conversations people still remember.

Melissa and Tenaya created a welcoming and supportive environment where parents learned practical skills for active listening, asking thoughtful questions, and helping others feel truly seen and heard. Their workshop was a valuable and memorable part of our summit.
Melissa Vian
Education Project Director, Idaho Parents Unlimited
With thoughtful and creative conversation events, Melissa and Tenaya are reminding us about the power of curiosity, civility, and simply showing up.
Renee Silvus
Community Leader and Retreat Facilitator
The events Melissa and Tenaya host foster a depth of connection and intimacy within the community. I am continually impressed and grateful for the quality of the workshops they’ve facilitated over the past four years.
Ellen Ganz
Board Member, McCall Arts & Humanities Council
A Dialogue IQ gathering in McCall, Idaho

Past engagements

Where we've been trusted.

Four years of facilitating real conversation across Idaho and beyond.

  • Idaho Parents Unlimited — Leadership RetreatApril 2022
  • Discussion DinnerMay 2022, 40 participants
  • 15 Toasts DinnersMay 2022–2024
  • Idaho Parents Unlimited — Parent Voice SummitSeptember 2023
  • McCall Arts & Humanities Council4-year partnership
  • Utah State University — Summer Citizens ProgramJuly 2025
  • Parent Facilitation TrainingSeptember 2025
  • Parent CafésDecember 2025, April 2026

Let’s talk

Let’s build the session your guests will be talking about on the drive home.

A 30-minute discovery call. No pressure. Just a real conversation about what you’re building.